Sunday, May 18, 2008

Yesterday I went to a mall here in Orange County. I wasn't looking for anything particular, I was more or less there for some retail therapy. Devan was napping and John was playing xbox so I figured it was a good time to slip away for a while. The mall is nice. It has an entire Pottery Barn Kids store, which I've never seen before. I didn't even bother going in. I did, however make a quick stop in Gap Kids. I browsed through the clearance rack for about 2 minutes and found a shirt for $3 that I couldn't refuse. I grabbed it and got in line.

In front of me in line was a woman with her daughter who looked like she was about 10. The woman was buying piles of baby clothes. I almost got out of line because it looked like it was going to take a while, but I stayed. This woman had mounds of clothes. Shirts, pants, shoes, jackets, swim suits, etc. It all looked newborn size. While this woman was getting ready to pay for this giant bag of clothes, a friend of hers walks in the store. They start talking.

Lady buying clothes: Hi! How are you?
Friend: Good, blah blah blah
Lady: Are you going to so and so's baby shower tonight?
Friend: No, I can't make it. Are you going?
Lady: Yeah, that's what this is for- (pointing to her gargantuan pile of clothes that the cashier is still loading into bags).

They say goodbye. The cashier gives the lady her total: $371. She swipes her credit card and is off with her extra large over flowing bag of clothes for an infant that will outgrow them in less than two months.

I was torn between staying in line to buy my $3 shirt and chasing after the woman to ask her if she wanted to come to my baby shower next time I have a baby. Or I'd ask her if she wanted to adopt a daughter and grandaughter. Or I thought about asking her if she had any unmarried sons...

As I walked out of the mall the world around me seemed to be in slow motion. I carried my one tiny little bag with my little $3 shirt while everyone else around me had multiple large bags and boxes, laughing and smiling as they loaded their bounty into their big suv's and small convertible sports cars.

I didn't move to Orange County. I moved to the twilight zone!!

7 Comments:

  1. sheri said...
    Aw man! I'm always amazed at the difference in how people are just between here and Westlake. $371 for a shower?! Insane! Especially considering it wasn't even a close relative (i.e. the other lady asking if she were going...it wasn't like it was obvious because she's the aunt, or whatever)
    Ruth said...
    It's funny to me how some people spend a ton of money on baby shower gifts. There are two people in particular that I can think of that spent way more than they should have on gifts for Ashley (I don't think it was quite $371, but well over $100). It was difficult, then, when one of those people had a baby and we had to come up with something to give them. Of course we couldn't afford to spend nearly what they spent on us. I ended up making a bunch of stuff, but still felt like it was such a small gift compared to what they gave us.
    Anonymous said...
    The bulk of my kids clothes are going to come from the thrift store. Not because I couldn't afford to buy SOME clothes but because children dribble, barf and defecate on their clothes! Not to mention I want them to be able to play in mud and get dirty and have fun!


    Maybe this is why we are friends because we realize this kind of stuff...
    Schmath said...
    Probably all those peeps are living beyond their means. That's what I say to comfort myself when I can't afford something expensive and everyone else can.
    jessicalangprice said...
    That is crazy. The commercialism in America and especially is California is so all-consuming. At least it's good for the economy, right? People are DEFINITELY not like that in Switzerland so it's always weird going back. I wish she was MY friend though!
    Haro Family said...
    Wow, couldn't agree with you more. Oh, to have that kind of money. The one thing I don't miss about CA is the way people flaunt their money. When I went to my sister-in-law's baby shower, her neighbor in Wood Ranch spent over $500 on gifts for her. It made us all look dumb with our $25 gifts.

    It's not like that here...oh no, folks here in hill-billy country are spending their money on teeth implants, cowboy hats, and chew. The only bling we see is their silver teeth. No BMWs here, just pimped-out tractors. Registrations at Pottery Barn? Unheard of. Walmart all the way, baby. You can get your 50-piece china set for $9.99.

    Ok, it's not really like that out here...kind of.
    Mo said...
    Shandrea- sometimes I feel like I'd fit in better somewhere like TX rather than CA. I've always wanted to live in the south!

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