We went to my Mom's for the weekend. As usual. Heres what we did:

We ate.


We had family and friends over and Devan got to play with her friend Kelly, which she absolutely loved!

We went sailing!! Here is John getting the boat ready:

Okay, the picture above really proves that my husband can do anything. We got on the boat and Captain Dan asked John to go to the front of the boat to do adonfaodyofiwueroer. That's what it sounded like to me at least. And as if John had been sailing his whole life, he jumped up and did exactly what Dan asked. Seriously? John is the ultimate jack of all trades.

Cathy and Adrienne can't contain their excitement:

John and Captain Dan:

The open sea!

Adrienne and John driving the boat:

We had such a great weekend, thank you to all who shared it with us!

Most people recall certain years in their lives by relating them to historical moments. How do you remember certain years in your life. For me it was always easy. My history is gauged by the cars my family owned, but mostly my dad's cars. It does get a little difficult in the current years because there was a lot of turnover. So I submit for you my history, as accurately as I can recall it:

Born 1980- Not sure what my dad drove
1984- Chevy Vega (Dad)

1985- Honda Prelude (Dad)

1986- 1968 Chevy Impala (Mom)

1987- VW Bus (Mom)

1989- Ford Aerostar (Mom)

1989- BMW 325i (Dad)

1996- Chevy Corvette (Dad-I get my license and inherit the 89 Aerostar)

1997- Mecury Sable Wagon (Mom)

1999- Mazda Miata and Chevy Silverado (Both Dad's. Don't ask my mom about this. I took over the Silverado when the Aerostar fell apart. I also left on my mission this year)

2000- BMW 540i (Dad) Pontiac Sunfire (Mom)

2001- Acura 2.5TL ("Returned with Honor" and made my first purchase)

2002- Toyota Tacoma TRD 4x4 (My second car and my favorite to date. We traded in the Acura and the BMW 540i)

Porsche Carrera Convertible (Dad. All yellow with yellow stiching. Basically a really fast bumble bee.)


2003- Saturn Ion (A bitter-sweet year. Sold the Tacoma, *sniff *sniff, but got married. I bought that Ion because it was dirt cheap and a huge piece of crap)


2003- Porsche 911 Turbo (Dad. Don't ask my mom about this one either)

Honda Civic EX SE (Morgan. Now a full fledged member of the Walletclan and on her way to the "Car a year" program)

Subaru STi (Dad. It was either the Porsche goes or my Mom goes. This car was gnarly fast and pretty worked over. I really liked it and was sad to see it go.)

2004- BMW X3 (Mom gets a nice little grocery getter)

2006- Honda Element (Morgan. We had Devan and the Civic was too small.)

Mercedes SL500 (Dad steps back into luxury and drops the kid racer image)

Toyota Solara Convertible (Mom gets a new car. There must have been another one in there somewhere

2007- Jeep SRT-8 (Dad gets 425 hp in a family friendly SUV)

Honda Fit (We decide to eliminate two car payments and insurance payments and trade for one car. It's a sassy little thing)

2008- Dodge Caravan (We inherit the 2005 Caravan. Thanks!)

Audi RS4 (Dad picks up this new whip. I drove it the day he got it and MANNNN it's fast, and yellow!)

So that is our car history in a nutshell. Some of the pictures are the best ones I could find, but I tried to show you the exact car we had. This list excludes any of my dad's motorcycles and siblings cars....

What car did you have in 2002?

*Correct me if I am wrong or missing cars.

Before I begin this post I'd like to say that I have been extremely blessed. I was raised by two great parents who made sure I always had everything I needed and more. I was blessed with a desire to work and make my own money which enabled me to have continuous employment from the time I was 15 until two weeks before I gave birth to Devan. Again, extremely blessed to be able to stay home with my little one, and for that I am forever grateful.

However I soon found out that staying home would mean I'd have to get really crafty with our finances. Enter The Grocery Game. Okay. I admit it. I totally knocked it at first. Seriously, what was I gunna do with 20 boxes of cereal and 5 packages of hot dogs? We're only a family of 3. Needless to say I ended up trying it out and haven't looked back since.

It's a system, really. A program of sorts. A program that I would relate to that of weight loss or drug rehab. You're skeptical at first. Am I really going to save that much money? Do I really need to start getting the Sunday paper? Once you begin it takes a while to get your coupon stash up to date. Then you learn the ins and outs of getting the best deal. It suddenly all makes sense and you are left with a feeling of empowerment!

There are some down sides to it though. Like when your husband spends $7 on lunch one day at work and you can't understand how anyone could spend that much for one meal that only feeds one person?! ( On a side note- my husband is actually a very good deal getter. He does his homework and really enjoys finding the best prices on things like electronics or sports equipment-just not groceries or food).

I've had some pretty good weeks, gotten lots of free stuff and have built up my food supply pretty well. I almost never go over my weekly budget and usually am under budget. This week, however, I did exceptionally well. I was a little worried when Ralphs and Vons stopped doubling coupons, so I decided I'd just have to put a little more effort into getting the best prices. I ended up going to three different stores, Ralphs, Vons and Albertsons. I wasn't sure it would be worth the hassle, but it totally was!

Here is what I got:

1 bottle ketchup
1 box cheez its
1 package tortillas
2 packages paper plates
1 package kraft cheese singles
3 packages hot dogs
1 tri tip roast
1 package ground beef
6 plums
1 lb green beans
1 gallon milk
1 can soup
1 box onion soup mix
1 container sour cream
1 package cream cheese
2 pineapples
3 mangos
1 loaf of bread
2 boxes fruit roll ups
1 bottle bbq sauce
1 bottle vinegar
laundry detergent
5 bananas
2 onions
5 pork chops
3 bags goldfish crackers
1 mens deodorant
1 package donuts
1 bottled water ( I got thirsty from all the grocery gamin'!)
= $58.00!
2 dollars under budget!

Okay, it would have been cooler if I said I got all of that for $3 or something, but really, that's a lot of food! And I absolutely don't mind putting in the extra effort, especially since I get to be home with my baby.

So stop spending way too much on groceries and try to grocery game already! My next adventure in saving money is going to be learning how to hypermile.

A while back I mentioned how behind the times I was in regards to mp3 speakers. Well, I don't feel so bad anymore. At least not about speakers.

I, for the first time ever, bought a rice cooker. I know what your thinking. TOTALLY behind the times. I've known about rice cookers. I've even bought rice cookers off wedding registries. However, I've never bought one for myself. And finally after under/over cooking about one billion cups of rice, I decided I'd give one a try. And I love it.

Perfect, fluffy white rice, every time. I now have a very open mind to kitchen electronics. Does anyone have an egg cooker? My Mom used to have one and I'm wondering now if it's better than just boiling them on the stove. This one has caught my eye.

Seriously, how cute is that chicken? I think I might have to put this on my Christmas list. If you have a kitchen electronic that you can't live without, please pass it along. (And btw, there's no money in my budget for a kitchenaid mixer).

Devan got her first haircut on Friday. For months her hair has been hanging in front of her eyes and I finally had enough.

I have a good friend named Jaime who works at this fancy salon in Newport Beach. I figured, hey, only the best for my 2 year old, right? I called her up and she said I could bring her by anytime. I finally got around to it this past Friday and it was a success. Well, besides the fact that I forgot my camera. I was dissapointed mostly that I didn't get a shot of Devan sitting in the big salon chair with the big cape draped around her so all you could see was her head. She called it her bib. Aside from not keeping her head still she did pretty well.

This was her first time meeting Jaime, and she kept calling her Amie Jo, another good friend of mine who visited about a month ago. I kept trying to correct her and eventually she started calling her Jaime Jo. At least it's progress.

I didn't want her to cut much, so she just evened out the back and trimmed her bangs. It's not a huge difference, but her hair isn't in her eyes anymore which is better for everyone! Thanks Jaime!!

Before:

After:

(This photo is actually for the film, however the cover of the book is the same picture).

The story is real, about a 24 year old guy who left everything to be a drifter-wanderer type and live off the land. It's really an incredible story. This guy came from a wealthy family and right after college donated the rest of his trust fund ($24,000) to a charity and just dissapeared. He traveled all over the west coast, from Mexico to Alaska and the book tells the stories of all the people he met and came in contact with. He traveled around for about two years or more (I think) and wanted to end his journey with an Alaskan adventure. The sad part is he gets to Alaska and lives in this abandoned bus for several months before dying of starvation. There are so many interesting and ironic points about his story. Like the charity he gave his money to was a charity to help fight hunger-and then he ultimately dies of starvation. He kept a journal and took photos of all his adventures and you can look them up online. Here is what the intro in the book says:

"In April 1992 a young man from a well-to-do family hitchhiked to Alaksa and walked alone into the wilderness of north Mt. McKinley. His name was Christopher Johnson McCandless. He had given $24,000 in savings to charity, abandoned his car and most of posessions, burned all the cash in his wallet, and invented a new life for himself..."

I can't put it down. Devan has watched Mickey Mouse Club House about five times in a row today. My words really don't do it justice. (For the record, if you do read it, I don't necesarilly think that this guy was a hero, it's just a really compelling story). I sometimes find myself reading and forgetting that this actually took place.

If you don't have time to read, you can look up some info on him on the web if you're interested. There are all kinds of pictures from his journeys and the bus he lived in is still in Alaska and hikers and hunters go there to check it out all the time. Anyway, if you are looking for a good, quick summer read, I recommend this!

I know I already posted tonight, but I have to share this funny story.

This morning we were getting ready for church and I told Devan to go find one toy from her room to bring to church with us. She looked at me, deep in thought, and said "Oh. Okay" then started running down the hallway towards her room and shouted, "I'LL GET MY SWORD!!"

I then had to explain to her that we couldn't bring her sword to church. She was a little upset, but seriously, a sword? If she wasn't so obsessed with her princess shoes I might be a little worried.

The bedding she's registered for is ocean themed,with blues and oranges. This was great because I happened to have fabric from my stash that is almost a perfect match:

Just a simple quilt with a flannel back, but how cute are those little crabs? I'll probably pick up something off her registry, too, but I'm excited to have been able to make something that will go with her theme. I'm in quilting mode now. If you have any good quilt ideas, send them my way!

The other day I was making a mental list of things I needed John to hang, fix, etc. I started to realize that I could get a lot more done if I could use his electric screw driver/drill. So I whipped it out and called him for instructions. Piece of cake! Seriously, cinchy. Why the intimidation? Well I got a lot accomplished. Here are a few things.

The laundry room. I finally got smart and hung a broom/mop holder on the wall. I cant tell you how much better this makes it. I no longer have falling brooms all over the place.

We need a lot of extra storage. I've had to get a little creative as far as storage goes. I found these great baskets that just slide right on to a shelf. I love them.

I may be way behind the times on this one, but seriously, how great are mp3 speakers?
I used to live for music. I would have music playing everywhere I could. I would always have it playing at home ( much to my parents dismay, I'm sure. I realize now that it was probably really annoying for you, Mom) and I'd always have multiple cd books in my car. I was so stoked when I finally had a car that I could plug my mp3 player into.

However, listening to music at home became almost impossible. What with apartments, and babies and all. That's why I'm so excited about these. They are so small, and all I have to do is plug them into my mp3 player and put them wherever I am. Which is usally the kitchen and the sewing table. It makes washing the dishes so much more tolerable, and also slightly drowns out the sound of Dora the Explorer. Slightly.

If I said we haven't thought about having another baby. Though there was a time right after I had Devan that I swore I'd never do it again, it seems to be coming up more and more these days. More of our sentences are starting like "If we have a boy..." or, "With the next baby, we'll need this...". I cant tell you when, but I can tell you it's in our plans. Although, the more plans we make, the more our lives seem to go in the opposite directon. Remember Chicago? I'm just sayin'.

Well, call it a little wishful thinking, but I found some fabric last night that I could not refuse.

I usually think hawaiian themed anything is totally outplayed, but I really fell for this print. I bought matching prints as well and can't wait to make a quilt. And if we never have a boy, I will give it to someone who does. On the topic of girls vs boys, I really cant decide what I'd rather have. The obvious answer would be a boy, right? I have absolutely loved having a girl, and sometimes find myself hoping we have another girl first. But when I think about 20 years from now, I really want boys. Who is going to chop fire wood, and feed the horses? What? I didn't tell you our (my) plans of retiring in Tennessee? That story will get it's own post.

I am NOT pregnant, by the way.

A lot has been going on around here so I thought I'd insert some pictures to help me with the update:

We went bowling with John's family over Memorial weekend. I actually forgot how fun bowling can be. Here is a shot of John's sister, Hilary. She bowls funny. She kind of flings her arm around the the side and then lets the ball go. She cracks me up.

Here's a shot of Devan I just love. I love her little smile and the lady bugs on her shirt.

Our hallway wall. I couldn't find John's favorite mission picture after the move, so I stuck this one in instead. The mask he got from one of his areas in Africa, I think. It's hand carved and I love it.

I painted Devan's toes.

and fingers.

Made my favorite rolls for our break the fast meal. (Q, next time you are here remind me and I will make some for you!)

And I finished a big project that needs it's own post, so I will get to that in a little bit. Hope everyone is having a great Sunday!

The other day.

Me: "John, when you are done can you take this bag to the recycle bin?"
John: " I don't think there is a recycle bin here."
Me: (looking completely shocked) "Are you serious??"
Devan: "You're kidding me!!"

Here she is sporting her sandals as she got a free ride on top of our luggage in Charleston, South Carolina:

No good either. She's still not quite ready for flip flops. So next I thought I'd try these, similar to flip flops but with the extra elastic strap in the back so they won't slip off her feet. I found these at The Childrens Place and spent $5 for two pairs:
(This particular pair is actually from Old Navy). No good!! These are even worse than normal flip flops cause once the elastic band in the back slips off, you have a huge mess. I was getting so frustrated with carrying Devan everywhere I went because she couldn't walk in her sandals that I finally gave in. (For the record, I'm sure once she gets older the flip flops will be fine, but not right now). In two days I had gone to Target, Walmart, Sport Chalet, Payless, Famous Footwear and a few other stores looking for the perfect summer sandal for her. No luck.

I drove straight to the mall and found the Stride Rite store. I was SO HAPPY to find they had her pink sandals from last summer! But, they also had a similar style. I asked Devan which one she wanted and she pointed to these:

It's true. Mother knows best.

We took Devan to our pool for the first time yesterday. She LOVED it to say the least. John got in with her and she had a blast. She's so lucky to have such a fun Dad. And I'm so lucky to have such a great hubby so I can sit back and take photos!

Here she is after she first got in. John was teaching her how to kick her legs.

Hanging out

Her first jump into the water.

And my favorite. The splashing. I love their facial expressions!

1. Calling my best friend on her birthday!!

Jackie, I thought about you all day. I really did. I went to call you tonight and it was then that I realized I never kept your new number.

Also, I have a gift for you. I was supposed to send it out before we moved because I knew I wouldn't get around to it and of course I didn't. It's been sitting in a box addressed and everything, waiting to be sent for about a month now. So I really didn't forget your birthday, I just never got around to calling you. Sorry! I hope it was wonderful!

Ps- email me with your new number!

Yesterday I went to a mall here in Orange County. I wasn't looking for anything particular, I was more or less there for some retail therapy. Devan was napping and John was playing xbox so I figured it was a good time to slip away for a while. The mall is nice. It has an entire Pottery Barn Kids store, which I've never seen before. I didn't even bother going in. I did, however make a quick stop in Gap Kids. I browsed through the clearance rack for about 2 minutes and found a shirt for $3 that I couldn't refuse. I grabbed it and got in line.

In front of me in line was a woman with her daughter who looked like she was about 10. The woman was buying piles of baby clothes. I almost got out of line because it looked like it was going to take a while, but I stayed. This woman had mounds of clothes. Shirts, pants, shoes, jackets, swim suits, etc. It all looked newborn size. While this woman was getting ready to pay for this giant bag of clothes, a friend of hers walks in the store. They start talking.

Lady buying clothes: Hi! How are you?
Friend: Good, blah blah blah
Lady: Are you going to so and so's baby shower tonight?
Friend: No, I can't make it. Are you going?
Lady: Yeah, that's what this is for- (pointing to her gargantuan pile of clothes that the cashier is still loading into bags).

They say goodbye. The cashier gives the lady her total: $371. She swipes her credit card and is off with her extra large over flowing bag of clothes for an infant that will outgrow them in less than two months.

I was torn between staying in line to buy my $3 shirt and chasing after the woman to ask her if she wanted to come to my baby shower next time I have a baby. Or I'd ask her if she wanted to adopt a daughter and grandaughter. Or I thought about asking her if she had any unmarried sons...

As I walked out of the mall the world around me seemed to be in slow motion. I carried my one tiny little bag with my little $3 shirt while everyone else around me had multiple large bags and boxes, laughing and smiling as they loaded their bounty into their big suv's and small convertible sports cars.

I didn't move to Orange County. I moved to the twilight zone!!

1. Returning phone calls
2. Answering my phone
3. Returning emails
4. Checking my email
5. Texting

If you know me well, you probably already know these things. I apologize. I apologize for every time I missed your call, or every email that went unanswered. You see, since becoming a mother I have almost completely lost touch with reality. I say almost because I do still watch The Hills.
It's rare that I actually hear my phone when it rings, and if I do it's another task to find it.

I bring this up because the other day my good friend Sheri called with a question regarding the Eclair Cake recipe I talked about. When she called I was at the grocery store buying popsicles that Devan had to have the instant we got home because it was so stinkin' hot. So after I cleaned up the sticky mess on my porch I had to take Devan inside and basically give her a bath in the kitchen sink. Then I had a cough attack. Some of you remember a few months ago I got a bad case of bronchitis. It's back. So after my cough attack I remembered that Sheri had called. Then I had to wander around my apartment to find a good spot to call from. Thats right, we get NO reception here. So by the time I listened to my voice mail it had probably been two hours and I felt horrible because she had a question about the recipe, which she was probably making at the time of her call. Sorry Sheri! I hope it turned out okay!

So, I have committed to being better at answering my phone and checking my email. I promise!